It's the first week of November. We all know what this means....
Gammy's Burnt Caramel cake.
On Monday I sat patiently in a waiting room, thinking to myself how much I hate the dentist. My mother always taught me that "hate" was a strong word. She preferred me to say "dislike." Well, I can honestly say, with only flinching a little, that I hate the dentist. After having maxillofacial surgery in my teens, it ruined me in that rubbery reclining chair for life.
This time it was just our kids getting checked. The little office that we go to is not as overwhelming, with soft up-to-date music playing and the dentist has good jokes. Both high on our priority list, obviously. As we checked out, instead of offering a prize for them to take home, for being such good patients, the hygienist took us into a little room off in the corner. It was lined with shelves and gently used books were packed in neatly.
"You can each choose three," she explained to the kids.
Being the readers that they are, (yes I am proud of this), they excitedly looked over the titles and picked out their treasures.
I think this is my new favorite place now.
The days are noticeably shorter and I'm obsessing over fall foliage as we prepare to go off for our annual cabin weekend soon. Hot cider with a sugar donut made me grateful for the extra time inside to cozy up and spend time as a family. Soccer is done now, and in place of evening outings we take turns reading or telling stories. This is the time we are reminded to slow down and enjoy moments. No matter how small.
I was thrilled this week to read Stella's article in the Huffington Post. She was one of my awesome cabin-mates for Write Doe Bay and I'm in the middle of reading her novel Until the Beat Stops. I met so many talented and inspiring people last month. Joe was one of them. He is an influential and innovative attorney who works with prisoners to educate them on the justice system so that they can be more involved in their circumstances. He also owns the Doe Bay resort and has a passion for the creativity that grows there. I was right here when this interview was taking place, and hearing him speak firsthand about what he's dedicated to and excited about was an honor.
By the way, did anyone else notice what the KC Royals did on Sunday?! I can't promise you that I've been a hardcore fan all this time-being from Kansas and all. But we did wear a lot of their shirts growing up, and went to some games. My dad has always been pretty loyal. We are certainly proud of them and cheered them on.
This month I've joined a challenge to write 50,000 words of my novel by dedicating myself to write every day. This was a challenge I accepted enthusiastically since some of my Write Doe Bay friends joined in as well. What I've come to realize- now that we're on day 5- is that putting yourself in that creative mindset consistently each day is more than just setting aside time to do so. It's climbing into corners of yourself to make something out of nothing. Not easy, but I am encouraged to keep trying. I'm already learning a lot about myself. Which, I think, is perhaps some of the process?
Also, just ignore me this month as I'm babbling to myself-talking to thin air. Sometimes I hold conversations with people/characters in my head-promise this is totally normal. And also ignore me if I'm complaining of heart palpitations-it's just the increased consumption of coffee to keep the creative juices flowing. It's a requirement with dreary skies and earlier sunsets.
This year's Halloween pictures...
Our kids continue to surprise me and make me smile. Caleb was a Vietnam soldier, and Katelynn was a "world explorer." This time of year I always get a little nostalgic. I don't know if it's only because I participated in trick-or-treating for one year in my childhood.
Growing up my parents raised us in a religious background until I reached 15. Nothing wrong with religion. But some of them throw "fall parties" and turn off the lights to trick-or-treaters. Now, as a parent, I tend to get a little sentimental on this holiday.
I love homemade costumes that you can hunt around in vintage or second hand stores instead of picking them out from a floor to ceiling selection that an un-enthusiastic high school kid hands you. Lucky for me our kids have been open to my quest for originality. After last year's Elsa fanfare, you can see what I mean.
Gammy's Burnt Caramel cake.
Every year as I sift flour, divide out eggs, and finally get to that rolling boil of caramel icing over medium heat-- I think of her.
"Gammy," I'll say, "I never met you. I can't even be sure I know what you looked like. But here I am, just a midwest girl trying to make your famous cake for your grandson and great grandchildren. Please, oh please don't let me screw this up."
And she nods to me, smiles as I play early jazz on Pandora. I let her know at the end of my efforts how thankful I am. We go on, we eagerly lick the spoon.
On Monday I sat patiently in a waiting room, thinking to myself how much I hate the dentist. My mother always taught me that "hate" was a strong word. She preferred me to say "dislike." Well, I can honestly say, with only flinching a little, that I hate the dentist. After having maxillofacial surgery in my teens, it ruined me in that rubbery reclining chair for life.
This time it was just our kids getting checked. The little office that we go to is not as overwhelming, with soft up-to-date music playing and the dentist has good jokes. Both high on our priority list, obviously. As we checked out, instead of offering a prize for them to take home, for being such good patients, the hygienist took us into a little room off in the corner. It was lined with shelves and gently used books were packed in neatly.
"You can each choose three," she explained to the kids.
Being the readers that they are, (yes I am proud of this), they excitedly looked over the titles and picked out their treasures.
I think this is my new favorite place now.
I was thrilled this week to read Stella's article in the Huffington Post. She was one of my awesome cabin-mates for Write Doe Bay and I'm in the middle of reading her novel Until the Beat Stops. I met so many talented and inspiring people last month. Joe was one of them. He is an influential and innovative attorney who works with prisoners to educate them on the justice system so that they can be more involved in their circumstances. He also owns the Doe Bay resort and has a passion for the creativity that grows there. I was right here when this interview was taking place, and hearing him speak firsthand about what he's dedicated to and excited about was an honor.
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| photo by Kat Marcinowski |
By the way, did anyone else notice what the KC Royals did on Sunday?! I can't promise you that I've been a hardcore fan all this time-being from Kansas and all. But we did wear a lot of their shirts growing up, and went to some games. My dad has always been pretty loyal. We are certainly proud of them and cheered them on.
This month I've joined a challenge to write 50,000 words of my novel by dedicating myself to write every day. This was a challenge I accepted enthusiastically since some of my Write Doe Bay friends joined in as well. What I've come to realize- now that we're on day 5- is that putting yourself in that creative mindset consistently each day is more than just setting aside time to do so. It's climbing into corners of yourself to make something out of nothing. Not easy, but I am encouraged to keep trying. I'm already learning a lot about myself. Which, I think, is perhaps some of the process?
Also, just ignore me this month as I'm babbling to myself-talking to thin air. Sometimes I hold conversations with people/characters in my head-promise this is totally normal. And also ignore me if I'm complaining of heart palpitations-it's just the increased consumption of coffee to keep the creative juices flowing. It's a requirement with dreary skies and earlier sunsets.
This year's Halloween pictures...
Our kids continue to surprise me and make me smile. Caleb was a Vietnam soldier, and Katelynn was a "world explorer." This time of year I always get a little nostalgic. I don't know if it's only because I participated in trick-or-treating for one year in my childhood.
Growing up my parents raised us in a religious background until I reached 15. Nothing wrong with religion. But some of them throw "fall parties" and turn off the lights to trick-or-treaters. Now, as a parent, I tend to get a little sentimental on this holiday.
I love homemade costumes that you can hunt around in vintage or second hand stores instead of picking them out from a floor to ceiling selection that an un-enthusiastic high school kid hands you. Lucky for me our kids have been open to my quest for originality. After last year's Elsa fanfare, you can see what I mean.
In the spirit of passing it on, enjoy some music this weekend. Until next time...
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